Thursday, July 10, 2025

A New Box of Squares - July Begins

 July 1 - 10, 2025
Tombstone, Arizona

Back porch view.

Squares in a box on a piece of paper or, more likely these days, on a screen - the calendar influences so much of our lives. Originally developed along astronomical and seasonal cycles, the calendar aided the agricultural community initially, and was naturally adopted for tracking religious rituals and festivals (eventually holidays). The Julian calendar is believed to have started organizing lives in 46 BC, with the current Gregorian calendar being introduced in 1582 by Pope Gregory Xlll. Resistance to the "Catholic" calendar delayed global usage until 1752. 

This man-made construct defines and dictates the whens and how-longs of our lives. Like the alphabet and musical notes, the calendar keeps us all "on the same page". 

So why this fascinating educational blip?

I started to write something about July 1 being the half-way point of the year. But that made me question "half-way to what?" Nothing within us actually ends or begins when the calendar changes to a new year. I was thinking that July 1 is a good time to take a deep breath and look toward the next six months with renewed convictions and commitments. But can't we do that every day?

We can, but usually don't. We need those squares. 

So at this recognized end-of-the-first-half point I've taken a few deep breaths and made a couple commitments for the next half. It's as good a time as any :-)

It takes several days to reacclimate to the quiet of a house without the energy and joy of little people. I miss them bunches. It's great fun to write the previous blog post with all the photos of our summer adventure! 

Monsoon Season is trying to start. Officially the season in southern AZ is June 15 - September 30 (because we have a calendar!). Predictions for 2025 include a wetter season than the last two years, but not until mid-July. Fingers crossed for accuracy as we need the rain (like most years) here. We get storms passing around us most days, and get a couple rains on the property. It's a slow start.

To the north.

An hour later to the southeast.

And the west.

Running errands in Sierra Vista and hoping this all heads to our house. It does!

While the grands were here we had fun naming the changing clouds. I send them this one to play with. Looks like Yoda to me!




Passing storms give us pretty sunsets.

Our wildlife continue to visit daily. One morning a large squadron of 15 Javelina come to the water bucket, including seven babies of different ages. There's a juvenile with a wounded leg that couldn't put weight on it a couple weeks ago. He shows up still limping but able to move quickly, putting weight on it!


An adult, juvenile and baby. The baby can't reach the water so takes the opportunity to nurse while mom drinks.

One persistent doe stops by most mornings that I'm out early on the front porch. She jumps the fence and nibbles the corn from the bird food on the ground. I don't try to get close to her, hope she won't ever trust humans, but she comes close on her own. Tessa watches but doesn't engage.

The Desert Bird of Paradise are not to her liking so we get a few blooms to enjoy.

Likely with fawn, they usually give birth in July and August.

Unfortunately later in the week Miss Deer shows signs of aggression toward Tessa (who continues to ignore her while walking around the yard). As sweet as those faces are, those hooves can be deadly strikers. We'll keep an eye out when letting Tessa outside.


Watching for a while, she doesn't mind sharing.

After no new Quail babies since the two that disappeared quickly a few weeks ago, I finally see a covey of 10 babies through the window! It makes me so happy, and I hope they all survive the predators and weather. Later in the week three families show up, each with less than 8 babies. They look like little fluffs of cotton and are very vulnerable.

Most lizards we get are thumb and finger size - you can pick them up with a pinch. Lately we've had some large thumb and four finger size. They're literally a handful! They tend to hang out in the shade. Until I pick up the camera.

A newest addition to the menagerie is the Trapdoor Spider by the front porch. Very industrious, they ring the hole with thick web, then lay a light covering over the top. At some point they, or something else, fill in the hole with dirt and there's nothing to see. A couple days later the trap is reconstructed. I've yet to see the occupant, but the hole is fascinating.

The dots are bird seed - not eyes :-)

The web construction is elaborate, but it's the perfect roundness of the hole that I find most interesting.

I have a medical procedure scheduled that I believe is going to have me in a room for two hours that may cause Tessa some stress. So I give her one of the pills from the vet to help her stay calm. Big mistake.

I end up able to walk around and have to change rooms a couple times which turns out to be difficult for the poor drugged dog! We come home and she sleeps for 17 hours. The next day she's still a little wonky. Even though her separation anxiety has increased with her limited hearing and eye sight, I won't use those pills again!

After what seemed like a "scary" message from the dr's office gave me a stressful holiday weekend I was grateful on Monday morning that there was nothing serious found. Whew!! At "this age" I'm more concerned when anything needs to be scanned!

What did you give me yesterday Mom??

Sunday evening bright sunshine lights up our little hilltop property, while we are surrounded by the darkest skies! Light wind and the wonderful smell of rain teases for a couple hours before moving on without a drop. So rude!



Although our July squares aren't full, we manage to pile up numerous appointments all in one week. Haircut, pedicure, dentist, doctors, dinner out with friends - feels like when we'd get to home base while full-timing and needing to get everything done quickly :-))) At least it's all done now.

I love it when Jeff makes lunch for me!

Our three youngest grands, numbers 8, 9 and 10, are getting so big and rapidly becoming their little individual selves. Delightful to watch through numerous photos and videos, like all the others we wish they lived closer.

Oliver loves being outdoors and helps pick apricots at his Oma's house.


Cassidy is a silly girl who finds delight in the everyday, and at that age where the container is as great as the contents.

Magnolia has a full range of smiles from precious to full-face-engaged. We hear she's a very good baby, and look forward to meeting her in person.



Friday, July 4, 2025

Grand Joy

 June 20 - 29, 2025
Tombstone to SoCal and Back


You always know the time is going to fly when you're doing something you love. With people you love. Especially little people.

I make an effort for Ezra and Elliott's summer visit to keep myself in the moment, not look at the calendar, enjoy all of it. Even the occasional we're-little-kids-in-a-different-environment bumps that come with these visits are just part of the experience. With those bumps few and far between, they earn 99%-angel badges from me! So the week is too quick, but it is very special.

The bags I forgot to take in the car make for fun surprises when we arrive. They're happy with the Legos and other toys, but the surprise for me is how much they both love having small blank notebooks and colored pencils to create stories and characters. Wish I'd remembered to take a couple pics of them!

I did however take lots of pics of everything else so they can tell the story of our week.

I'm delighted Ezra is embracing Harry Potter.

Elliott continues to be a Spiderman fan.

Flinging sticky, flippy critters on to the ceiling and waiting for them to drop on your face. Fun!!

At that age where the go-cart is a little too big.

And the small trike is a little too small.

Big brother helps make it work with a game of dodge-wheels.

Opening a portal is also fun!

Excited to see Elio at the theater where we know it will be much chillier than it is outside!

Post-movie, Ezra takes a nap while Elliott enjoys water play. Tessa avoids a second dunk.

This little pool has been a big hit the last two summers.

Elliott's turn.

An early morning trip to the groomer restores the fluffy dog to comfortable cuteness.

Movies are such a great option that we go see another one - How to Train Your Dragon is excellent. Go see it!

After the movie we're picking up pizzas while PopPop gets stopped on his way home in the Jeep with a blown water hose. The shop is around the corner, but a tow is needed to get there. We arrive a few minutes after he gets to the mechanic. He takes the kids, dog and pizzas to the house in the Ford while I wait for AAA. Jeff and Tessa pick me up 30 minutes later. Our new local mechanic has it fixed the next morning - whew!

Bubble blasters - woohoo!!

Bubble-mode on my phone's camera only catches one here - but they blast out a gazillion of them at Jeff and I.

They're just too sweet, these precious boys.

When the heat we've been complaining about feels really good!

Mellow skies all around.

Elliott quietly watches a young buck at the water bucket.

I promised Ezra he could spend a day playing games online with his friends. Their Xbox is set up on the temporary tv in our bedroom and he plays quietly most of the day. I'd like to have him with me, but it's his vacation too :-) His Uncle Jeff reminded me of the importance of that many years ago. 

Elliott and I take a short drive through the "old west", and then he plays an elaborate game with toys and narrative in the living room. I join him for some of it (my imagination pales in comparison!), then we read and play games on his tablet.

I could do this for hours. Just a few years ago it was his brother, so I know it doesn't last forever :-)

We're packed up and back in the car at 6:30 Friday morning. Boooooo :-)

Drawing more characters in his notebook.

Four of these stretchy, light-up giraffes in different colors are big fun :-)

Lunch stop for happy meals - the toy is the one character we don't remember from the movie :-)))))

After decades of driving this route (I took I-10 instead of I-8 this time), there's a new sign at the state border. Nice!


With no shade at the pool, we're happy with a nice suite at Comfort Inn for our last night. We enjoy a tasty delivered dinner around our coffee table, and more play before early bed.


Their masterpiece with sticky pipe cleaners. Yes, we cleaned the mirror before we left :-) Both are mimicking the character's face.

Also fun out of the car!

We send the "here we come!" pic to the parents.

After another five hour drive through the desert world of SoCal, the family is excited to be reunited and share stories of our adventures. Mom and Dad got away to Monterey so they have fun tales too!

Mom is coordinating a big Pride event for the next day in their little community so she's busy getting ready. I lend a hand with a little ironing (I still remember how), then the rest of us give her some space and head out for Chinese food.

Where Ezra catches a fly out of the air above our table! Wow!! We're all amazed. He's a little grossed out :-)) 

Saturday morning I'm out early. I'm sad to see an empty backseat except for the happy dog who gets to stretch out again after a week in the front seat.

Oh maaan :-(

Saturday's event is a big success - this is just a part of all Shalise did. 

A big boost for a sad morning is my next stop. Almost two years ago our ninth grand was born, and I have yet to meet Cassidy Jane! I'm so excited to see her and brother Henry and their parents Megan and Chris. Megan is my borrowed daughter, and they are all very special family.

I know from her photos what a happy girl Cassidy is - she and Mom share that great smile.

Handsome Henry is getting so big.

I sure wish they lived closer!!

I make my way back to Blythe where the hotel I left the day before has no openings. The Best Western is a clean and reasonable option. I note that dog friendly only means they allow them, but not that there is any place soft and in the shade to relieve themselves. Tessa too is quite the travel-trooper!

At my friend Maggie's recommendation I have a delicious dinner at Garcia's. They have moved into what was the Courtesy Diner for decades (I ate there several times in high school). Turns out the family owned both restaurants and recently closed the diner and moved Garcia's into the bigger space. Mamma Garcia still in the kitchen makes superb chili rellenos! 

I have another good audio book, Turquoise Ledge by Leslie Marmon Silko to keep me company on the last leg. The biography of a Native American woman is very different from many stories, and well told.

Less heat haze this trip, although still heat at 108.

Our southwest states have lovely overpasses on the Interstates, and in some towns art is added to utility boxes on busy corners. This one in Buckeye, Arizona, is one of the nicest I've seen.

I'm back home by 1:00. Hard to believe I just left two days ago!


Oliver meets Spiderman!!

Solstice Sweeties - Reese, Penelope and Magnolia.

M & M as summer hot dogs!!